Why It's OK To Pivot or Change Your Career as a Mother
Dear fellow Mama,
Firstly, take a moment and look around you. You’re doing an absolutely incredible job. Balancing a career and a family is a superhero act, and sometimes, that means reassessing and making changes to better fit the beautiful chaos of your life. So, if you’ve found yourself altering your career path to accommodate your ever-evolving lifestyle- it’s more than okay. In fact, it's courageous.
Before kids, our careers may have been the focal point of our ambitions. We might have strived for milestones, climbed corporate ladders, or poured our hearts into something purely for the purposes of work. Then, suddenly, tiny hands and parenthood entered the picture. Everything shifted.
Maybe you took the full maternity leave from your career to nurture your little ones during their first year. Perhaps the five day, 9-to-5 routine clashed with the demands of parenthood, leading you to seek a more flexible schedule. Or you might have realized that your passions and priorities changed, urging you to explore completely new avenues that align better with your family life.
Let me tell you, whatever path you’ve chosen to take, it’s valid, it’s commendable, and it’s a testament to your adaptability and strength.
There’s a common preconception that once you start down a career path, any deviation is considered a failure, or 'giving up'. But here’s the truth: life isn’t linear. It’s a complex web of experiences, learnings, and growth. Whether you're pursuing a new passion, adjusting your schedule, or completely changing careers, it all adds to the colorful story of your life. The decision to press pause on a career isn’t just about sacrificing professional growth and qualifications; it’s a conscious choice you're making that's driven by your need to do what's best for you and your family.
Remember, your worth is never defined by your job title, status or the conventional measures of success. It’s found in the other countless roles you play every day - a mother, a teacher, a mentor, and a constant source of love and support for your little one(s).
So, to the mum who shifted gears and negotiated to work from home with flexible hours, juggling conference calls and endless laundry – you’re incredible.
To the mum who pursued an entirely different career path that allows for more time with family – you’re inspiring.
And to the mum who put her career on hold to focus on her children – you’re doing something invaluable.
Your choices are valid. Your journey is unique. And your impact, both at home and beyond, is immeasurable.
It’s okay if your career looks different right now. You’re not giving up; you’re evolving. You’re adapting to the season of your life, finding the perfect balance between your professional aspirations and the beautiful journey of motherhood.
So, stand tall, embrace the changes, and own your story. Your path is yours to pave, and it’s going to be beautiful whatever you decide to do- just like you!
With admiration and unwavering support,
